My Wish Is For Her To...

Motherhood changes how you perceive life in generel. It changes your way of thinking, your opinions about certain issues and most of all your relationship to your love ones.

I came from a family where saying " I LOVE YOU " to each other is not practiced. We don't kiss or hug or tap each others shoulders if we have problems. We are so distant with each other that we barely know what's happening in each others lives. That is so sad and that is the reality of my life.

I am changed when I became a mother. I am surprised that I can give more love than I can ever imagine and be vocal about it, atleast for my son and partner in life. I came to a point that I felt sad for my mother not to experience it. But, my son was born she was the one who really helped me to things I don't know as a first time mother. She helped me trough the way and she is the only reason for what I am now as a mother. I owe it a lot to her and with it, we became closer....

Unfortunately, due to financial constraint, she has to work overseas to send my younger brother to school. And even she's sick, she is still trying her best to provide for our family (my father and 2 younger brother). And I salute her for that!

In connection with this, my wish is for her. I wish that God will give her more strength and a more healthy body and to heal her illness. We are not there to help her or to take care of her that is why I am asking God to do it for us. And the most important thing I will wish for her is peace of mind. We can't give her material things and all but in my own opinion, it is the most expensive gift we can give her right now.